Many young people may want to
get married because their friends are getting married, some parents are
pressurizing, to get married, someone wants to get married for the liberation
from family problems. Some people are curious to see someone else's physical
beauty or marry because of money. Some find a partner, someone wants to get
married to get a strong family support that is possible through a marriage
Again, as a Muslim, the Sunnah of the Prophet's wish to marry as a worship.
When two boys and daughters
begin to travel with the intention of living with another human being, they
need a lot of preparations. They combine the two families, here is a matter of
adjusting themselves * with another family. There are many types of
characteristic, without which the problem is unnecessary * Single * Life is
spent but married is also necessary. So, if there is pressure or tension in the
absence of these, no other person will have any responsibility, suffering will
happen.
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| LIFE PLAN QUOTES |
At present, many children are
sitting in the middle of the television media and commercials, thinking about
marriage to some of the modern dating type. Only endless happiness, blissful
joy However, after the marriage, toothbrush can be seen here why, why do the
towels, there are differences in the type of small things of type one another,
At the beginning of the marriage, due to the overflowing of love, they ignored
these, but even after some time, these minor differences of opinion began to
become unbearable.
Indeed, there is a need for
some mental preparation for family life. I see, love, love, and marry with a
smile - these are all wrong thoughts and actions that lead to unhealthy married
life. A western psychologist and a council of Marriage Council wrote that she
insisted on considering marriage responsibilities before marriage. It is
important to accept and keep family and private responsibilities.
The question is, how do you
know that you are really ready to get married? And more precisely, how do you
make sure that you are ready to marry a specific person you choose? It's
important to know yourself if you are ready for a wedding. For this reason, you
should sit down to make some personal calculations and identify your own
weaknesses and identify your weaknesses. You need to know how God relates to you,
and how do you expect God's relationship with your partner?
Are you really ready to
share your life with someone else?
Are you ready to take
responsibility for the formation of your family, to compromise on different
issues, work together with the partner / partner, meet your personal and family
goals?
It is important to know
what you want to do, to know how much you will contribute to your family after
marriage, and to make a healthy, happy family.
Ready
To know if you really want to
get married and are ready to get married, the pre-wedding knowledge is very
important. Some knowledge and ideas can be known about how a relationship might
be after marriage, due to this effort. Pre-Marital Counseling is done
regardless of religion in the Western world.
Insha Allah, you can find out
the reason for urging you to increase the relation between you and Allah. Most
people also see what they are - before they understand that they marry, there
are many complications, it has a role in the back of uncomfortable family
relationships.
Your speech, vocabulary =
total communication skills
Calculate the budget and the
money
Restraining anger
How to handle it with someone
else's problem
If you are concerned about
the solution, you are ready to solve
These are all very essential
qualities for marriage. So, if possible, it should be counseled with someone if
possible.
Before choosing one's life,
one needs to keep in mind, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon
him) said:
"Women can be married
in front of four things: her wealth, her heritage, her beauty, and her
religion. In this case, be victorious for the righteous wife, and your hand
will be filled with good. "[Bukhari and Muslim] - [5].
Tolerance is very important
when two new people start living together after marriage. Everyone basically
only thinks about their * received * or * desires *, and therefore there is a
possibility of being irritable.
Family is the most important
institution of the whole world. Anarchy in the Muslim society will be created
if there is unrest in the family. If there is no peace in the family, it
creates the possibility of falling. If there is no peace in the family, then
members can become indifferent and inadequate to observe the responsibilities
of their religion. And so, this decision is very important.
Let the Muslim youths do not
jump to love, to protect the character for the sake of the world and the
hereafter, to control the mind, to control the mind. To be a successful
believer, it is important to keep yourself calm. [4] Along with this, praying
for God in prayer is necessary. A beautiful couple are: "Rabbana hublana
min azwazina wa zuriyatina kakurata ayunin wa jaalna lil muttakkina
imama".
Meaning: "Our Lord,
grant us the comfort of our eyes from our wives and our offspring, and make us
an example for the righteous." [Surah Furqan: 74]
May Allah bless our Muslim
brothers and sisters, have mercy on them, make them worthy of Allah's good
pleasure. With the formation of a beautiful beautiful family, the Muslim Ummah should be free from the corruption of the people, and the new Muslim community
will be able to offer the true religion to the new generation. May Allah bless
us all.
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